The ABCs I’m talking about are agency, balance and context…
I think these are three important concepts as our society moves forward in uncharted waters. Important for everybody, but particularly for our youth, who as the years pass will more and more have to steer the ship of our culture. But first that ever-needed context…
I think our American culture has lost its bearings… and for good reason too. We humans are dynamic and powerful consciousnesses (more so than many of us may know) with a great ability to adjust quickly and profoundly to new circumstances, at least in a timeframe of centuries, but even in the course of a lifetime. I think this is a blessing, but the roller coaster ride it puts humans and our culture through can involved a mind-boggling and nerve-wracking amount of change and adjustment. Continue reading →
Category Archives: Context
Profound Kitchen Conversations
After my parents divorced in 1965 (when I was ten years old), my mother became quite a party-giver. She had already plunged into local Ann Arbor politics as a precinct chair for the Democratic Party and a campaign manager for several men who ran for local offices. Our house was regularly filled by a sampling of some of Ann Arbor’s most interesting university professors, well-educated wives of university professors, and other political animals. Usually the food and drink was very simple, almost minimalist. Her favorite menu was spaghetti, with her special recipe of sauce, salad, and Bloody Maries to drink, served out of a big crock.
Jane was the maestro of all her parties, carefully designing the guest list so that everyone coming would find several other people they would be interested in meeting or be stimulated by encountering again. Then as the guests arrived and the party got underway, she would move about and make sure that everyone encountered their counterparts as per her plan. With the booze and the tasty food, it made for an energetic swirl of conversation, debate and argument, much of it political. Continue reading →
My Humongous Playpen
I was born on April 2, 1955 in the maternity ward of the University of Michigan Medical Center in Ann Arbor Michigan. My mother Jane had gotten her bachelors’ degree in sociology two years earlier and my father Eric at this point was a graduate student in English Literature. Based on what I was told by both of them I was a project jointly planned and profusely anticipated.
As part of that plan, around the time of my birth, Jane and Eric moved from the apartment where they had been living to one a couple miles away on South State Street, closer to the University campus, but also uniquely suited to their idea of raising a young child. Just across the street from their upstairs apartment was the practice field for the football team, a large enclosure of manicured green grass lawn maybe 150 yards on each side, surrounded on three sides by a brick wall and on the fourth side by railroad tracks of a small rail yard (where freight cars seemed always to be parked) separated by a high chain link fence. It had several entrance doors that were latched but not locked, so it represented a contained space where a young child could wander, but not leave, all the while easily in view of an adult seated anywhere within the space. Though the football team practiced their often in afternoons during the fall, most of the time it was vacant. Continue reading →
The Keisling Clock
In Junior High and High School English classes I was introduced to the work of Ray Bradbury, including his magical summer experience of “Dandelion Wine”. But when I participated in a multiple reading of “The Innocents” as part of a High School district forensic competition, our well received reading was upstaged by a very provocative well wrought reading of Ray Bradbury’s quietly apocalyptic “2026: There Will Come Soft Rains”, about what we would now call “smart house”, which was going through the motions of its daily automated routine even though ironically all the humans were gone due to some sort of unnamed cataclysm. Continue reading →
A Boy Named Sue?
After much discussion and thought, my partner Sally and I decided to give our kids her last name rather than mine. We had pragmatic reasons for doing it, and we knew full well that we were breaking with patriarchal tradition, but we were caught by surprise by the consternation of my feminist mom.
When Sally was pregnant for the first time, we made every effort not to find out the gender of the baby until after s/he was born. Following the Jewish tradition of Sally’s family, we decided to pick a first name with the first letter of the person no longer alive that we wanted to honor. In this circumstance we decided that that person would by my father, Eric Zale, who had died in 1984, just after Sally and I married and two years before Eric’s first grandchild would be born. Continue reading →
The Long Road to Agency
I’ve just started reading a book called “From Dawn to Decadence: 1500 to the Present” by Jacques Barzun. Its the last of my three year long plunge into 27 books John Taylor Gatto recommended reading (at the end of his “Underground History of American Education”) to give one 10,000+ pages of context for the American education system. Barzun’s premise is to do a post mortem on the “Modern Era” which he says began around 1500 with the decay of medieval culture and the turning things upside down by the Protestant Reformation and presumably is now transitioning into a new era. Our so named “Information Age” I guess is the first act of this new era, and we can’t even begin to know how the era will be labeled five centuries from now. Continue reading →
The Wiffenpoofs Assemble…Hail to the Victors
When my brother and I were young, before my mom and dad divorced and my dad departed the household, my recollection is that just about every night, truly a nightly ritual, he would join Peter and I in our bedroom to sing songs. He taught us the songs he loved the best…college songs. Football fight songs, first the “home team’s”, his beloved University of Michigan…
Hail! to the victors valiant,
Hail! to the conquering heroes,
Hail! Hail! to Michigan the leaders and best. Continue reading →
My Inspiration to Blog
Last year my son Eric encouraged me to do a blog. It was nice to have your progeny think well enough about me to think that you have something to say to others. He told me how to get a URL (web address) and gave me space on his company’s web server. He showed me how to pick a free blog template (from the WordPress.com offerings) and deploy it on my blog. I ran into a few initial obstacles which he helped me resolve. Continue reading →
Innappropriate Standardized Testing
FYI… I started my new job today after being unemployed for six months (but fortunately with five months of severance pay). The time off from my work gave me the opportunity to really plunge into my writing and finally, after many false starts over the past 15 years, really get into a writing groove. So with my new job I have much less of my own time but I hope not to abandon my “groove” completely. So some of these upcoming posts may be shorter and not as well developed. Others will be pieces I’ve written previously. So here goes… Continue reading →
Thoughts on Parks & Playgrounds
Responding to my recent post on “Duck & Cover…”, my U-U friend Emily, who has posted several comments on my blog, recalled as a kid living next door to her elementary school and its playground. She recalls fondly having the playground so close, and being able to spend so much time playing there. I had a similar circumstance in my youth…
My mom and dad made a concerted effort when my brother and I were kids to live next to a park, so we had that great close by venue to play. During my early elementary years, we lived in our little house across the street from Almendinger Park in Ann Arbor. Not a big park, but it had a playground, big lilac bushes to hide in and do imagination play, a couple baseball diamonds, a tennis court and picnic tables under a stand of maple trees. The parks and recreation department also had a person on site in the summer to let kids in the neighborhood check out sports equipment – soccer balls, baseballs and bats, tether balls, etc. – and organize some activities. Continue reading →